So What if Life is Unfair?

Life is just like that... as my friend told me... it is never fair... it does not go on for you... It goes on like how the river flows... it widens as time goes by... it goes deeper and sometimes it dries up...
Sometimes life sucks... sometimes its too overwhelming to even bear... Sometimes you cry because of pains caused by the people around you... sometimes you weep because of too much love given to you by the person you love... Sometimes you are being hurt by things that happened in the past... but do not cry over spilt milk... just enjoy what is left in the glass and clean the spill...
Though life can be unfair... I have never regret anything that happened to me... I am hurt so many times in the past but still life goes on... it is not how unfair life is to you... it is how you accept failure, pains and hurtful tears... it is not how life lacks happiness... it is how you can be contented with what it offers you... Life is unfair. It is totally unfair. But its not going to be as wonderful as it is now if we have not suffered pain in the past... it is not as magical now if we have not seen what fake magics are... we can never appreciate being loved if we have not been fooled in the past...
There's so much more mystery in life we could think of... Most of them are unwanted... unplanned... thats why we are always caught unprepared... but it is not how life surprises us... it is how we react to those surprises... Be calm... Be open-minded... Be trusting... Be a listener... Be respectful... Be a person with heart... Care for what others feel... Love yourself... and Love others...
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The Story I Cried a Tear On....
I watched 700 Club before sleeping... There was this man who had a wonderful story of realization...
He is one of those "Black Sheep" Child in a family... He found his place with his peer... He cursed his parents to their graves... and killed 2 people while being involved in one of the dangerous gangs somewhere... He was sent to jail where his mom kept visiting him although he pushes her away... but one day he heard someone said a bible verse which made him want to say sorry to his mom... one day... the jailguard handed him a folder and inside was the death certificate of his mother... he held back his tears and headed to his cell... there everything flashed back... he saw his mom taking care of a kid and the kid grew up to be him... he saw how he robbed his mom for cash... how he cursed his mom to die... and now it happened... she is now gone... then his sister came.... brought along a tabloid stating that his brother died with 51 stabbed wounds... and so he locked himself again...to cry alone and think of revenge... but again he heard the word of the Lord... so he just let it pass... weeks and weeks after.... his sister came back... carrying a news... his dad had died... he hated himself then on... they died without him having to say sorry first... so he cried outloud for God's forgiveness... and he promised Lord that he will serve Him... just free him from all these pains and suffering he is going through... And the Lord heard Him...
It was a touching story... I cried hearing him tell this with rough voice and teary eyes... haay... I love you Lord :)